Getting Started & other questions
So how do we get married?
The first step is to contact me with as much information as possible about your wedding, including your intended date..
Then we catch up so we get to know each other, work out if I’n the celebrant for you and then discuss your ideas for your wedding and reception. If we're unable to meet in person, we can chat using Zoom or FaceTime.
If you’re happy to proceed we’ll complete my Service Agreement and I require a booking fee to secure me for your date. We also complete the ‘Notice of Intended Marriage’ (NOIM) form to start the legal bits rolling.
We'll have other meetings to get more into your unique ceremony. I can provide you with examples of formats, ideas on vows, ring exchanges, readings, etc.
In the months leading up, I’ll keep in touch to see if you have any additional ideas r things to tweak - and I’m always available via phone or email.
One month prior, I’ll have sent you the script of the ceremony for your review and approval.
Closer to the day, if you wish, we can have a rehearsal with the other attendants to run through the ceremony on-site.
On your Wedding Day, I arrive 45 - 60 minutes beforehand to set up and liaise with your other suppliers to ensure the day runs smoothly.
After the ceremony, I’ll take my time collecting my items in case you have any questions before you head off to enjoy married life!
When can I get married?
We need a 'Notice of Intention to Marry’ (NOIM) lodged between 1 month and 18 months before your intended date.
There are some situations this can change, but I’ll talk you through all the requirements of the various forms, etc required.
As an Authorised Marriage Celebrant, I am obliged to follow all health guidelines and legal requirements. In the event we have another CoVid or pandemic, I will keep you informed of the applicable rules to hold your ceremony legally and without putting you or myself at risk of any financial or legal penalties.
Can my children be the witnesses?
Legally, witnesses for a wedding need to by 18 years of age of older.
Whilst children younger than this age can’t act as the legal witnesses, we can talk about ways to have them involved in a meaningful way on your big day.
Other questions?
Getting married creates a wealth of questions, no matter whether it’s your first or fourth wedding! I’m always available for a quick chat or email to discuss any questions you may have.
Can we hold a surprise wedding?
As long as the couple getting married have completed the NOIM form and other legal requirements, the type of ‘surprise wedding’ I can perform is when we surprise your family and friends, such as having them think they’re coming to a birthday BBQ and suddenly it turns into a wedding!